Good,not indifferent person is Blushed Gorbachyova ,has asked to illuminate the subjects,when we forget that at divorce are present else and children.So was born this article.
,,HOSTAGE-Child,,
Present such picture.The Husband,wife,child.Intiligentnaya family.Well does not заладилось beside them.
The Love passed,nature does not сошлись.Yes little can be the reasons for divorce.It is Correct.Much.
And here is they sowed;sown two together and solved.The Period three months.It is Necessary much neatly prepare the child to that that pope(pa) and ma will live apart.For begin no clarifications of the relations at child.
Not to adjust the child against ma,and against pope(pa).Nespesha to prepare the child to thoughts that in lifes people meet,mistaken,and they happen to раставатся.That this not tragedy.So do much people.And so on.
Faniastika will say You.And will rule;govern.In passion of the conflict between spouse,is forgotten most main and expensive.The Child.But him больнее all see,as two roads him person swear.
He loves and ma,and pope(pa).That him to do,who нибудь has thought.He that to tear.Physically him not to break, but here is morally pope(pa) and ma tear him(it) asunder.If любишьпапу,signifies do not love the ma.
Conversely.But child one.And loves its baby soul he both.That to do?
On my glance from two parents who that must render the умнее.It is Necessary simply not учавствовать in war in which attracted the child.Let speak that you do not love its offspring.Yes let that want speak.
Let, the child loves more ma,or pope(pa) if to whom that of them so want.Does Not учавствуйте.
Poberegite phyche child.Believe that child подрастQт,and itself all will understand.The Children very clever.And memory on events beside them excellent.The Child heart all feel.
The Subject very big.Very painful.The Events be the miscellaneouses.Vozvrast at the time of divorce,ditto different.The Integer of the book write to this subjects.
But remember the main.Does Not учавствуйте at делQжке showers child.
Realy main who guilty in divorce,when deal concerns the child.
There is one more moment,concerning child,when begin to profiteer that divorce this trauma, and better live although and in плохом,but marriage.Certainly for the sake of child. But as otherwise.Only for the sake of it loved.
The Big foolishness.Not big torture for child,when he sees and feels that pope(pa) and ma do not love each other.The Children after all all understand.And острее feel.And what this family will.
Else question,it is necessary such жертвенность most child.Think that no.Orderly develop the child can under normal relations of the parents only.But as otherwise?
He after all example it is necessary to take with pope(pa)s and with mas.But as his(its) take,when they do not love each other, and do not live on essences,but quietly each other hate.Atmosphere невыносимая for baby phyche.
But conclusion much idle time.It is Necessary much seriously pertains with to marriage,and else serious child to birth in family.
Has Written all this,and so sadly became.What всQтаки adult be the blind.
But children all see,all notice.And will come time will without fall present the count a blind parent.
While all.See you later.Beregite itself.
Author Alexander D.
